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考慮一千次，不如去做一次！

猶豫一萬次，不如實(shí)踐一次！

華麗的跌倒，勝過無謂的徘徊！

據(jù)哈佛大學(xué)研究：一個(gè)人沒出息一定有以下這九大根源。

一、猶豫不決

Indecision

比魯莽更糟糕的是猶豫不決。

What is worse than recklessness is hesitation.

像墻頭草一樣搖擺不定的人，無論其他方面多么強(qiáng)大，在生命的競賽中總是容易被那些堅(jiān)定地人擠到一邊。雷厲風(fēng)行難免會(huì)犯錯(cuò)，但比什么也不敢做強(qiáng)。懷特·黑德說：“畏懼錯(cuò)誤就是毀滅進(jìn)步?！?/span>

Those who sways with every wind are just like the grass on the top of a wall, no matter how powerful , are always easy to be defeated by those who has a strong belief. Act vigorously and resolutely will inevitably make mistakes, however, is better than doing nothing. "The fear of error is the destruction of progress," said Whitehead.

二、拖延

Procrastination

很多時(shí)候拖延就是逃避問題和懶惰。

Most of the time procrastination is to escape from a problem and laziness.

著名思想家羅曼·羅蘭說：“懶惰是很奇怪的東西，它讓你以為那是安逸，是休息，是福氣；但實(shí)際上它所給你的是無聊，是倦怠，是消沉?！?/span>

The famous thinker - Romain Rolland said “Laziness is a strange thing, it makes you feel that your situation is comfort, is a rest, is a blessing; but in fact it is boring, tired, depressed.”

三、三分鐘熱度

Brief period of enthusiasm

世界上有80%的失敗都源于半途而廢。

80% of the failure is due to give up halfway in the world.

幾乎所有的人都有過“雄心勃勃地制定計(jì)劃，心灰意冷地放棄計(jì)劃”的經(jīng)歷。

Most of people had the experience of making plans ambitiously, and then had to give up in despair.

四、害怕拒絕

Fear of rejection

厚重而脆弱的自尊

Heavy and fragile self-esteem.

大多數(shù)時(shí)候，我們?cè)谌穗H關(guān)系中感受到的“痛”，都和“感到被拒絕”有關(guān)。

Most of the time, the pain that we go through in our interpersonal relationships is always in connection with "you think you were rejected".

五、自我設(shè)限

Self-handicapping

殺死自己的潛能力

Kill your latent ability.

拉羅什富科說：平庸的人總是在抱怨自己不懂的東西。

La Rochefoucauld said: mediocre people are always complaining about things they do not understand.

六、逃避現(xiàn)實(shí)

Escape from reality

逃避現(xiàn)實(shí)者更愿意營造一個(gè)屬于自己的小世界。

Escapists prefer to create their own little world.

人的悲劇在于眼高手低。

People's tragedy is they have a great ambition but puny ability.

七、總找借口

Excuses

錯(cuò)不在我。

It is not my fault .

人一旦犯了錯(cuò)，第一反應(yīng)常常是自我辯護(hù)。

Once people made a mistake, the first reaction is often self defense.

八、恐懼

Fear

謹(jǐn)小慎微的且懦弱。

Timid and cowardly.

九、拒絕學(xué)習(xí)

Refuse to learn

你不是寂寞，只是不想學(xué)習(xí)。

You are not lonely, just don't want to learn.